Comments on: I am Fucked

By: Kimberly Hall

Kimberly Hall — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 17:42:25 +0000

Hey, my name is Kimberly Hall, fellow redhead. My husband found this site and thought it suited me to a tee. When I read this one I wanted to tell you if somebody hasn’t already from since I have been doing this for 14 years and maybe can give you a little advice from one exwife to another. If you have a a court order for child support after this little deal go to the Bureau for Child Support Efforcement. They can garnish he wages and if he is more than 30 days late they can contact the employer. Every 3 years you can ask for a review of your support order and you don’t even need an attorney because the child support agency will have one there for them and they can go into his tax record so he can’t hide what he makes. Mine tried that. I’ve never trusted my ex to pay on his own and this way I have somebody on my side. If I can help anymore I’ll be glad to. Kim

By: Tracy

Tracy — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 01:05:02 +0000

Hi, this is my first visit to your blog, I saw you in the comments section of Junk Drawer blog. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation.

I've known a few posters on my forums have worked for Live Ops taking orders/customer service type things for companies using their home phones. http://www.liveops.com/become-agent/index.html

I use adsense, Blogher and Amazon affliates to make money online, but it's not a whole lot of money.

By: BONNIE K

BONNIE K — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 02:40:43 +0000

check this out: http://www.angelfoodministries.com/
If there's one in your area, you can save money on food.

By: Mrs.C

Mrs.C — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 20:10:03 +0000

Division of Family Services, or the Social Security office. Explain the situation and bring all paperwork with you. The joy of it is, they take over from there. You get a check, and any help you may need. THEY go after him for that money. Also, they will take his income tax return at the end of the year. So, he will be paying it back, just the hard way.

They will also tell you how to apply to get medical help for the kids, and check into food stamps again.

(I used to help with a site for battered women, and learned a lot of options to help them with food, medical and such)

By: Daisy

Daisy — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 17:02:47 +0000

I'm sorry you are going through such a difficult time. My best source of income has been through BlogHer ads, but it takes a while to get approved, then get paid. You can put Project Wonderful ads up the same day, but they only pay a few cents per day.

Headbonks and purrs to you.

By: Jane Doe

Jane Doe — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 11:16:50 +0000

I so feel for you! There have been plenty of times I haven't received child support and it is not only frustrating as hell but scary. I don't know how to do any of that money making online but I can say a prayer for you. Lots of them.

Hang in there.

Jane

By: dizzblnd

dizzblnd — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 23:14:48 +0000

oh hun I am so sorry you are being put through this. Food stamps and financial assistance are not a bad thing. Please don't think any less of yourself for doing so.. We were on gov't help untill hubby found work and it was a great blessing. After he found work.. the checks kept coming in, but I never used them.

I do a lot of paid surveys. A really good one that pays $3-$10 depending on the survey via Paypal. I use that money to donate to people in need that I come across on line. http://www.pineconeresearch.com/signup/ds552Referral1.asp to register. You will qualify for a lot of them. Opinionoutpost.com, toluna.com

Those are ones I am members of.. and they DO pay cash.

Good luck! I will keep you in my thoughts

By: john

john — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 20:47:11 +0000

jen,
have you seen my writing?…lol. I am amazed they are still giving me opps..lol.

as for keywords, i dont find it too difficult as long as i pick the opps that i have a connection too.

By: Allyson

Allyson — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 18:18:27 +0000

Hey Redhead.

I'm AingerCompany from Twitter. I have a contact with a Kickstart invite, and can pass it on to you.

Shoot an email to info (at) skillstosuccess . com and ask for them for an invite. Tell them AIngerCompany sent you over.

Hope that brings a small amount of hope to you.

Allyson

By: Tina T

Tina T — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 17:39:40 +0000

This is actually related to legal aid. Often counties have women resource centers that provide legal aid to women in your situation. The women that I know who have used them have told me they are different because they go beyond the party line of "he's making minimum payments." Since pretty much everyone they help in legal matters is a woman trying to collect support rather than representing people in a variety of legal matters like regular legal aid.

BTW what's the deal with the state fining the employer for not garnishing the pay. Anything that the employer has to pay should go straight to you since you're the one who was hosed by their stupidity.

Wishing you the best of luck in getting this resolved.