Gay Marriage in Minnesota

Minnesota legalizes gay marriage, freedom to marry in Minnesota, marriage equality in Minnesota

Today the Minnesota Senate votes on whether or not gay people can legally marry someone of the same sex. It’s expected to pass and  Governor Dayton has said he will sign the bill if it lands on his desk tomorrow.

It’s about time.

If it passes same – sex marriages can begin August 1st, 2013. Minnesota would be the 12th state to legalize gay marriage.

Currently same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont, Maine, Maryland, Washington, the District of Columbia.

I’m thrilled that Minnesota is going to become a state that recognizes marriage equality and am hopeful that the domino effect will take hold and all other states will follow suit.

While views have evolved over the years about gay marriage, there are still many who would prefer to ban gay marriage. I’ll never understand the belief that gays shouldn’t be allowed to marry someone whom they love and who happens to be of the same sex. I don’t understand it because gays can get married, they can only marry someone of the opposite sex which makes for a very  difficult and confusing marriage.

I know because I grew up in one them.

Gay people have been getting married since forever so banning gay marriage does nothing but force gay people to marry someone of the opposite sex, someone they may love but ultimately may find difficult to remain committed.

The argument that same-sex marriage erodes traditional marriage is the biggest crock of shit I have ever heard. Straight people have been eroding marriage just fine without the help of gay people. I know I’ve done my part having two marriages – so far.

I can attest to the fact that growing up in a mixed orientation marriage is confusing, shameful, loud and just downright hell. I think most people would agree that growing up with parents who love and respect one another is preferred to one where lying, arguing and sadness are the rule.

I expect this bill to pass, as do many who are opposed to it. The best thing about this issue is that sooner, rather than later, it will simply age out. The people who fear gays will die out. The kids coming up, the ones who will rule this world very soon, don’t care a bit if someone is gay. And that is incredibly refreshing.

Today will be an historic day in Minnesota. Today is the day we vote for the family, for equality and for freedom.

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World’s Largest (Charity) Baby Shower March 28 in Minneapolis — That’s Tomorrow!!!!

 

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World’s Largest (Charity) Baby Shower to Benefit Tubman Culminates in Free March 28 Event Hosted by Travel Leaders

Grand Finale of Donation Drive Will Take Place at the Hotel Sofitel Minneapolis Featuring Live Broadcast of the “Lori & Julia Show” on myTalk 107.1

Plymouth, MN (March 27, 2013) — To cap off a successful donation drive to benefit Tubman – the state’s largest provider of domestic violence services – local Travel Leaders are hosting a free grand finale event on March 28, 2013, from 3:00-7:00 p.m. at Colette Bar & Bistro at the Hotel Sofitel Minneapolis in Bloomington. This free event is open to the public, which can donate needed items or cash at the door if they so desire, but it is not required to attend.  In addition, “The Lori & Julia Show” on myTalk 107.1 will broadcast live during the baby shower event. 

 

Attendees at the World’s Largest (Charity) Baby Shower event will enjoy a fun-filled evening with drinks and appetizers, a photo booth, and prizes – including a grand prize of a trip for two to Cancun, Mexico, from Funjet Vacations.* In addition, local Travel Leaders experts will be on hand to offer travel advice on adventurous cruises, luxurious all-inclusive resorts, rich cultural escapes and colorful sun-drenched island vacations – particularly those offered by Funjet Vacations and Holland America Line.

 

The driving initiative for this baby shower event – and the month-long donation drive – was to help raise awareness for the work Tuman provides on behalf of women and families who have been victims of domestic violence.  Donations collected at Travel Leaders travel agency locations throughout the greater Twin Cities-area included baby supplies and necessities such as: bottles, diapers, sippy cups, onesies, sleepers, and wipes. With almost 40 years of experience, Tubman has provided safe shelter, legal services, counseling, elder care resources, youth programming and community education for women, children and families struggling with relationship violence for nearly 40 years.

 

The Travel Leaders agencies who have participated in the month-long donation drive include:

 

Albertville 6597 Laketowne Place NE, Suite A

(763) 497-0312

Apple Valley 15083 Flagstaff Avenue

(952) 432-6272

Bloomington – Southtown 7831 Southtown Center, Suite A

(952) 835-8636

Coon Rapids 2740 Main Street

(763) 323-3665

Edina 3922 West 50th Street

(952) 929-6444

Maple Grove 13756 83rd Way North

(763) 231-8870

Mendota Heights 750 Main Street, Suite 105

(651) 686-9903

Minneapolis 15 S 5th Street, Suite 1120

(612) 333-5559

North Oaks 893 Village Center Drive

(651) 483-0296

Plymouth 3675 Plymouth Boulevard, Suite 110

(763) 544-3191

Prior Lake 16731 Highway 13 South, Suite 108A

(952) 445-6463

Red Wing 201 Plum Street

(651) 388-6702

Stillwater 1826 Tower Drive

(651) 439-3522

Willmar 716 South 1st Street

(320) 235-5700

Woodbury 7455 Currell Boulevard, Suite 107

(651) 731-9706

River Falls (WI) 117 East Maple Street

(715) 425-8200

 

“Travel Better” with Travel Leaders. To learn more about the World’s Largest Baby Shower to benefit Tubman, go to twincities.travelleaders.com  or call one of the participating Travel Leaders locations.

 

*No purchase necessary. Must be present at event to win. Additional restrictions may apply.

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I Won’t Be Shopping At Petco Anymore

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Why I won’t be shopping at Petco

I loved Petco. I spent a ton of money there each month because we have two dogs, two guinea pigs, one rabbit, one cat and one hamster. I buy premium dog food and gobs and gobs of dog toys and chew sticks because I have a puppy that really likes to chew and we have run out of Barbies.

I loved Petco because they were conveniently located in Highland Park and the sales associates there were usually pretty helpful and always friendly. They are a tad overpriced, I can find everything I get for quite a bit less (except for the premium dog food) at Walmart. But I preferred shopping at Petco over Walmart because it isn’t Walmart.

Why won’t you be shopping at Petco anymore, Jen?

I won’t be shopping at Petco anymore because they ended up costing me $137.00 and are unwilling to do anything about it.

So here’s the story. I bank at a local bank that is currently used by University of MN students. I bank there because my son has to bank there and I can transfer money to him easily this way. I keep it run down as low as possible because I don’t use it much and I don’t really trust banks anymore.

I went to Petco in January to pick up some of that premium dog food and had left my wallet at home. I had my checkbook so I wrote a check. I never write checks anymore because no one takes them and I don’t usually carry checks but props to Petco for still taking them because it would have been a wasted trip otherwise and my dogs were getting hungry.

I made a mental note to myself to transfer funds from one account to another and continued on my way.

As you have probably guessed I forgot all about transferring funds.

Life goes on and about a week later I get a notice from the bank saying that my check had been returned and I better cover the check. I promptly transferred the funds I meant to a week earlier and figured the check would be represented and all was good.

Ten days later the check was presented for the second time and paid. Since that time I have spent over $100 on pet food and dog chews.

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End of story.

Or so I thought.

Ten days after the check was paid my bank account was pinged for $30. from Petco. Apparently they charge a service fee on checks returned. Not bounced checks but checks returned once but still paid.

Because I don’t use the account, and I had seen that the check had finally been paid on the second presentation I didn’t have more than $10 in the account so when it was pinged for the $30 fee from Petco my bank rejected it. In the process, because they are a bank and are all about making money on their free accounts, they charged me $37.

My bank sends me a notice of this overdraft but they send it through the old fashioned mail because I haven’t set up an electronic alert on my account. I get the notice about a week after the first overdraft. By the time I get the notice Petco or Telecheck  has attempted to collect this $30 fee two more times. Each time causing my bank to reject the payment and charge me $37.

When I get notice from my bank I head on over there and talk to a very nice manager who tells me that I need to talk to Petco. My banker states that she has never seen a company charge a service fee on a check that was paid. She goes on to say that if a company draws an electronic service fee they do so right away. They don’t wait ten days to pull the fee.

Which is nice. My banker understands that I had covered the check, left a few extra bucks in the account and that was it. I was ahead of the game for ten days when they tried to pull this fee that my bank rejected.

My banker suggested that I talk to Petco because she was unable to do anything about it. Policy, you know.

I called Petco, corporate Petco from their website, and got India. After yelling in the phone for half an hour the nice Indian woman told me to call the Highland Park, MN Petco. She was still unsure why I was calling, she couldn’t understand why they would charge me when the check had been paid.

Think about that. The nice outsourced, customer service rep from India understood that the check had been paid and therefore there should be no service fee.

I called the Highland Park, MN Petco and talked to Carla, the store manager who was very nice. She listened to my story, remarked at how strange it was that I was charged a service fee when the check was honored and then went on to tell me how she bounced a check to McDonald’s for $25 that turned into $500 worth of bank fees.

Carla said she would contact corporate and get back to me in the next day or two. I mentioned that I had a bit of a time constraint because my bank was threatening to close my account if I didn’t bring it into the black. I would have done so when I spoke with my banker but she was concerned they would continue to try to take the service fee and suggested I stop payment, which we did, and not deposit anything into the account until all was settled.

Carla called me back right away and told me that Petco uses Telecheck and that I must talk to them. That it is their fee that they are trying to recover.

I’m exhausted just retelling this story.

I explain to Carla that Telecheck doesn’t care about any of this and because Petco has sold my supposed debt to Telecheck they aren’t likely to help me. They, Telecheck, want their money and will most likely do whatever they can to collect it.

I ask for a number or email of someone at corporate to contact. I tell Carla that I don’t want to drag her into this mess and that I was sorry for getting her involved (because we live in MN and default to apologies). She says she understands and would do the same thing if she were in my shoes.

Carla tells me to call her back after I call Telecheck and let her know what happened. She seems to understand that they aren’t going to do anything and is trying her best to help out even though Petco corporate isn’t supporting her at all. Carla wants to help.

I call Telecheck and get a woman who, while residing in the US, hasn’t quite mastered the English language yet.

Sigh.

To make a long story short I am told by Telecheck that they can’t do anything. It is there policy – which may or may not have been posted at Petco. She then tells me that they are reporting this to the credit bureaus and how did I want to pay the $30 fee?

I called Carla back and told her what had happened. I again asked for a contact at corporate to help resolve this because while it may have been their policy, and it may or may have been posted, the debt was paid long before the fee was charged and the fee was applied without notice which caused me to be charged over $100 by my bank.

Grrr – I’m getting frustrated just trying to retell it.

Carla said I shouldn’t have bounced a check and that I needed to pay the fee. Carla didn’t care that I visited the store at least three times a week and that now Petsmart or Walmart or Chuck and Dave’s would be getting my business. Carla may have but corporate didn’t. It’s hard to tell because Carla was the go between. I don’t envy her position because she truly was stuck in the middle. I’m not thrilled with her condescending attitude at the end — especially in light of her large overdraft due to a $25 check to McDonald’s — but what do I know?

I spent more than these fees each month at Petco. I won’t even go into the whole story about the dead guinea pig. I am a Petco Rewards card holder and usually earn two rebates a month. Petco had a good customer in me until today but were not the least bit interested in working with me to make this right. I expected a little more from Petco than this.

So, I won’t be shopping at Petco anymore.

 

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